YOU ARE STRONG!

The day after Cam left I recieved this email from our Squadron Commanders Spouse. It really spoke to me and have continued to speak to me. I will probably be posting similar items that inspire me, throughout the next few months. These are things that I want to remember when I look back years from now. So indulge me...

Over the years I've talked a lot about military spouses... how special they are and the price they pay for freedom too. The funny thing about it... most military spouses don't consider themselves different from other spouses.


They do what they have to do; bound together not by blood or merely friendship, but with a shared spirit whose origin is in the very essence of what love truly is. Is there truly a difference, I think there is! You have to decide for yourself.

Other spouses get married and look forward to building equity in a home and putting down family roots. Military spouses get married and know they'll live in base housing or rent, and their roots must be short so they can be transplanted frequently.

Other spouses decorate a home with flair and personality that will last a lifetime. Military spouses decorate a home with flare, tempered with the knowledge that no two base houses have the same size windows or same size rooms. Curtains have to be flexible and multiple sets are a plus. Furniture must fit like puzzle pieces.

Other spouses having living rooms that are immaculate and seldom used. Military spouses have immaculate living room/dining room combos that are frequently used and the furniture is battered from being moved so many times.

Other spouses say goodbye to their spouse for a business trip and know they won't see them for a week. They are lonely but they survive. Military spouses say goodbye to their spouses and know they won't see them for months or even a year. They are lonely but they must survive.

Other spouses, when a washer hose blows off, call the repairman and write a check for getting the hose reconnected. Military spouses will cut the water off and fix the hose themselves.

Other spouses get used to saying "hello" to friends they see all the time. Military spouses get used to saying "goodbye" to friends they made the last two years.

Other spouses worry about whether their child will be class president next year. Military spouses worry about whether their child will be accepted in yet another new school next year and whether that school will be the worst in the city... again.


Other spouses can count on spouse participation in special events... birthday, anniversaries, concerts, football games, graduation or even the birth of a child. Military spouses only count on each other because they realize that the Flag has to come first if freedom is to survive... it has to be that way.


Other spouses put up yellow ribbons when the troops are imperiled across the globe and take them down when the troops come home. Military spouses wear yellow ribbons around their hearts and they never go away.


Other spouses worry about being late for mom's Thanksgiving dinner. Military spouses worry about getting back from overseas to attend dad's funeral.

And other spouses are touched by the television program showing an elderly lady putting a card down in front of a long, black wall that has names on it. The card simply says, "Happy Birthday Sweetheart, you would have been seventy today." A military spouse IS the lady with the card and that wall is the Vietnam Memorial.


I would never say that military spouses are better or worse than other spouses. But I will say there is a difference. And I will say that our country asks more of military spouses than is asked of other spouses. And I will say, without hesitation, that military spouses pay just as high a price for freedom as do their active duty husbands or wives. Perhaps the price is even higher. Dying in service to our country isn't near as hard as loving someone who has died in service to our country, and having to live without them.


God bless our military spouses for all they freely give. And God bless America!